I made something for you

I am so grateful for your emails, friends. The ones where you have shared that yes, you are depressed. Yes, marriage is a struggle. Yes, it is a battle to surrender and lay down the urge to have [...]

“I want control”

There are things—and people—we just can’t change. At least not on our own. But we really, really want to. We want to control the situation, change this person, change ourselves. We push [...]